fix(popover): stronger, centralized active-row highlight (UAT finding)

The roving-focus row in every popover menu was barely distinguishable from the
menu surface — an accent fill at only 24%, and the recipe was copy-pasted across
5 consumers. Centralize it in PopoverItem (ACTIVE_HIGHLIGHT, applied to every
item) and strengthen it: accent/35 fill + a 1px inset accent ring for a defined
edge that reads across all 6 schemes in both themes. Consumers no longer carry
the recipe.

Uses the now-working `bg-accent/NN` / `ring-accent/NN` utilities (v4 does the
opacity modifier via color-mix) instead of the old hand-written color-mix
arbitrary value the v3 no-op forced. Verified in-browser: fill + inset ring
render on the active item, dark and light.

frontend/src/components/tableHeader.tsx

@@ -197,7 +197,7 @@ function FilterFunnel<T>({
                     onApply(col.key, on ? arr.filter((x) => x !== o.value) : [...arr, o.value])
                   }
                   label={o.label}
-                  className={`flex w-full items-center gap-2 text-left text-xs px-2 py-1.5 rounded-md outline-hidden transition data-active:bg-[color-mix(in_srgb,var(--accent)_24%,transparent)] ${
+                  className={`flex w-full items-center gap-2 text-left text-xs px-2 py-1.5 rounded-md outline-hidden transition ${
                     on ? "text-fg" : "text-muted hover:bg-card"
                   }`}
                 >