build(backend): close the lint gaps the E32 audit measured

ruff gains RUF100, PLW1510 and flake8-bugbear, every hit fixed rather than
ignored. B008 stays on with FastAPI's Depends/Query declared immutable.
basedpyright moves to standard mode, pytest to --strict-markers, and a hand
run of pytest now requires the database unless SIFTLODE_TEST_REQUIRE_DB=0.

PLW1510 found a real bug: the three ffprobe probes in plex/stream.py never
looked at the exit status, so a probe that failed was read as the file's
truth (an HDR source sent down the HW-safe path, a multi-audio file collapsed
to one track, a subtitle offset taken from garbage) and the warning each
except branch promises never fired. They now run with check=True.

backend/app/plex/subtitles.py

@@ -162,7 +162,8 @@ def ffmpeg_to_vtt(src: str, sub_ord: int | None) -> str:
         "webvtt",
         "pipe:1",
     ]
-    r = subprocess.run(cmd, capture_output=True, timeout=EXTRACT_TIMEOUT_S)
+    # check=False: the exit status is read on the next line, with ffmpeg's own stderr as the reason.
+    r = subprocess.run(cmd, capture_output=True, timeout=EXTRACT_TIMEOUT_S, check=False)
     if r.returncode != 0 or not r.stdout:
         raise PlexError(
             (r.stderr or b"").decode("utf-8", "replace")[:200] or "ffmpeg subtitle convert failed"