build(backend): close the lint gaps the E32 audit measured

ruff gains RUF100, PLW1510 and flake8-bugbear, every hit fixed rather than
ignored. B008 stays on with FastAPI's Depends/Query declared immutable.
basedpyright moves to standard mode, pytest to --strict-markers, and a hand
run of pytest now requires the database unless SIFTLODE_TEST_REQUIRE_DB=0.

PLW1510 found a real bug: the three ffprobe probes in plex/stream.py never
looked at the exit status, so a probe that failed was read as the file's
truth (an HDR source sent down the HW-safe path, a multi-audio file collapsed
to one track, a subtitle offset taken from garbage) and the warning each
except branch promises never fired. They now run with check=True.

backend/app/progress.py

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ its own thread/context) never cross wires. When no sink is bound (e.g. a manual
 """
 
 import contextvars
-from typing import Callable, Optional
+from typing import Callable, Literal, Optional
 
 Sink = Callable[[int, Optional[int], Optional[str]], None]
 
@@ -48,7 +48,9 @@ class bind:
         self._token = _sink.set(self._sink)
         return self
 
-    def __exit__(self, *exc) -> bool:
+    # Literal[False], not bool: this never swallows the job's exception, and saying so is what lets
+    # a type checker know a name assigned inside `with bind(...)` is bound after it.
+    def __exit__(self, *exc) -> Literal[False]:
         if self._token is not None:
             _sink.reset(self._token)
         return False