fix(i18n): read every refusal from the backend's syntax tree, not by regex

The contract read Python with regexes, and each guard added for a missed shape had shapes of its own
it missed: a reason after another key, a status passed by name, a second `e.reason` handler with the
same text, a pin naming a type nothing checked.

backend/tests/refusal_sites.py (stdlib `ast`, run by the contract on the host's Python) reads every
`{"code": ...}` detail and follows each reason to its values: literals, both arms of a conditional,
module constants, the `Literal` on the parameter or attribute it travels in (on the class an `except`
catches), every call of a `str` helper with its defaults, a map's values with its keys held to the
index's type. What it cannot follow fails the contract, unless no screen shows that code; no pins.

The reason attributes are typed with their Literal, so a subclass or an assignment cannot widen
them; InvalidSetting takes a SettingReason, and the settings map is held to it (a reason the map
lacked was a 500). The per-family reverse checks are one check by prefix (the admin actions
included), and the leaf-key filter applies only to the suffixed sign-in family.

docs/development.md

@@ -144,7 +144,8 @@ npm run typecheck     # tsc x3 (app / node / e2e)
 npm run lint          # eslint (typed rules included; warnings fail)
 npm run format:check  # prettier
 npm run knip          # unused files/exports/deps
-npm run test          # vitest (incl. the compiler and gate-register contracts)
+npm run test          # vitest (incl. the compiler and gate-register contracts; the refusal contract runs
+                      # the host's `python` on backend/tests/refusal_sites.py, stdlib only)
 npx vite build        # the production bundle (devOnlyGuard fails it on dev-only code, chunkGuard on a lazy page loaded at boot)
 npm audit --omit=dev --audit-level=high   # what ships to the browser, at high or above
 ```