fix(api): a write that hit a connection failure is still reported, and every failure is reported once

Deep-review round 4, the "one report per failure" contract round 3 introduced.

- `req` marked gateway (502/503/504) and network failures "already reported" because they raise
  the connection notice. But that notice is about connectivity and removes itself on the very next
  answer — which every caller's own resync refetch fetches at once — so a delete that hit a
  keepalive reset flashed the notice and was then reported nowhere, the list still there. Only the
  durable reports (the error dialog, the 401 sign-out) count now; the caller says the action failed.
- A connection notice the user closed swallowed every later one for the rest of the visit; it is
  raised again.
- `req` and `uploadReq` share one failure policy (`reportFailure`). The upload copy had drifted: a
  502 opened the blocking "Server error (502)" dialog and cleared a notice that was still true.
- A taken Plex collection name is a structured 409, localized, and the create/rename calls are
  quiet: it was an English dialog plus a Hungarian toast. `notifyCollectionEditError` is gone.
- The mutation onErrors that toasted unconditionally after a non-quiet request (invite approve /
  deny / add, demo whitelist, audit clear, scheduler, share, full history, edit, config tests, tag
  attach) go through `notifyActionError`; the playlist delete's hand-rolled copy of it too (it takes
  a level now). The user role / suspend / delete actions had no onError at all: a user deleted in
  another tab failed silently and stayed listed — now said, and the list refetched.

frontend/src/components/VideoEditor.tsx

@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@ import { api, type DownloadJob, type EditSpec } from "../lib/api";
 import { contentRect, cropToSourcePx, type Frac } from "../lib/cropGeometry";
 import { inputCls, btnCls } from "./ui/form";
 import { Button } from "./ui/Button";
+import { notifyActionError } from "../lib/actionErrors";
 
 // mm:ss.d timecode <-> seconds.
 function tc(s: number): string {
@@ -322,7 +323,7 @@ export default function VideoEditor({ job, onClose }: { job: DownloadJob; onClos
       notify({ level: "success", message: t("editor.created", { count: files }) });
       onClose();
     },
-    onError: () => notify({ level: "error", message: t("editor.failed") }),
+    onError: (e) => notifyActionError(e, t("editor.failed")),
   });
 
   const sel = segments.find((s) => s.id === selId) ?? segments[0];