feat!: remove the shared demo account

The demo account — one shared user that whitelisted emails entered from
the login page, reset on a schedule — goes end to end (owner decision,
E34): demo.py and the reset job, users.is_demo and demo_whitelist
(migration 0098 deletes the demo user, its audit rows, the reset job's
override and notices, then drops the column and table; the downgrade
restores the empty schema), the /auth/demo entry, the admin whitelist and
reset, the Demo tab, the banner, the login page's "Try the demo", and
every is_demo branch in routes, userscope, scheduler and the UI.

require_human only ever refused the demo account, so its 87 uses become
current_user (owner-approved); require_write_scope keeps its own check.
The login page's "or" divider now shows only beside the Google button:
without the demo entry under it, an instance without Google would have
said "or" to nothing.

A contract test (removedFeatures) fails on the word anywhere in the
backend, frontend, e2e or scripts — seen red on a planted hit. Size
ceilings tightened for the modules that shrank; admin.py is back under
the limit.

frontend/src/lib/onboarding.ts

@@ -22,11 +22,8 @@ const ONBOARD_DISMISSED = LS.onboardingDismissed;
 
 export function shouldAutoOpenOnboarding(me: {
   can_read: boolean;
-  is_demo?: boolean;
   google_enabled?: boolean;
 }): boolean {
-  // The shared demo account can never connect YouTube, so never nudge it to.
-  if (me.is_demo) return false;
   // YouTube connect needs Google OAuth configured on this instance. A self-host instance may run
   // email+password only — then there's nothing to connect, so don't nudge.
   if (me.google_enabled === false) return false;