fix(ui): a write that fails says what failed and why, wherever it fails

`req` opens its blocking dialog for 400/409/422/5xx only. A 403/404/429 was left to the caller and a
502-504 or lost connection got just the self-clearing connection notice, so 34 mutations without a
reporting onError and 15 direct api writes with a bare or missing catch failed in silence: a hidden
channel that snapped back, a share link that never revoked, a confirmed account delete that ended
with nothing said.

- lib/queryClient: one MutationCache reporter. react-query awaits it BEFORE the mutation's own
  onError, so it waits a task and skips a failure the site already reported; the toast title comes
  from `meta.failTitle`, `meta.errorShownInline` opts out.
- notifyActionError: title names WHAT failed, the line under it says WHY (`failureReason`: a
  structured localized detail, else the status). It marks the error reported (`markReported`), so
  nothing reports one failure twice; `notifyKnownFailure` for a site's own specific sentence.
- Every silent site named (45 new HU/EN titles, 4 reasons). Stale "the global dialog shows it"
  comments corrected on the job actions, channel block, Plex sync, cookies, download enqueue,
  account delete and usePref.
- Channels passed the tag hook's channel id to the reporter as the error; the tag and priority hooks
  now report themselves, with the real error.
- A contract test keeps every useMutation naming its failure; CLAUDE.md gains the pattern row.
- history.dom.test: the "navigates only once the entries are back" assertion raced an async act's
  macrotask flush (1 in 5 runs); it now asserts from a later popstate listener.

CLAUDE.md

@@ -91,6 +91,7 @@ CQRS, a repository/DI framework, a router library, a generic CRUD-router factory
 | FE keyboard shortcut    | a row in `lib/keymap.ts` + `dispatch()`                      | a private `keydown` listener with its own key literals |
 | FE control              | the chip/segmented primitives (`Select` only for >6 options) | a native `<select>`                                    |
 | FE loading/empty/error  | `QueryState` / `StateMessage`                                | ad-hoc conditionals                                    |
+| FE failed write         | `meta.failTitle`, else `notifyActionError(err, title)`       | a bare `catch {}` or `notify()` with no error attached |
 
 ## House rules that bite (learned from real bugs)