fix: warn before the delete, not after — plus round-2 copy and a11y corrections

Round 2 on the feature diff (15 → 12):

- still_allowed_by_env now rides the invite LIST as well as the delete response,
  so the confirmation warns while the admin can still change their mind. It
  mattered most for a DENIED row on an env-allow-listed address: deleting it
  silently converted a refusal into a grant, and the only warning arrived after
  the irreversible click.
- Both inbox bodies claimed to name "the most recent" dropped message. The
  throttle records the FIRST of each hour and never updates it, so they now say
  "one of them", and the not-configured body finally names where to fix it.
- settings.invites.emailOff told the admin they "get no notice when someone
  signs up" — rendered directly above the queue that shows exactly that. Only
  the email is lost, and it now says so.
- The disabled delete buttons put their reason out of reach: `disabled` drops a
  control from the tab order and suppresses its title. Switched to
  aria-disabled + preventDefault, the pattern Playlists.tsx already established
  for the same reason.
- deleteInvite is quiet, so the 409 the UI handles with a translated toast no
  longer also raises the server's English detail as a modal.
- After a completed password reset, Back landed on the reset form again with a
  consumed token — the history change made that state reachable. The token is
  cleared on success so the reset view stops being the card's root.
- The hu deleteHasAccount named a tab that renders under a different label.

Tests: a dom test for the Access-requests panel covering both has_account
variants and all three delete outcomes, /api/me flag cases, an ADMIN_EMAILS
case, and the env-allowlist test now patches the raw setting so the parsing
stays under test.

frontend/src/lib/api/admin.ts

@@ -22,6 +22,9 @@ export interface Invite {
   /** An account already exists for this address, so the entry can't be deleted from here — deleting
    *  it would revoke that user's access (is_allowed reads this row). Delete the user instead. */
   has_account: boolean;
+  /** The address stays allow-listed by the server's env ALLOWED_EMAILS / ADMIN_EMAILS, so removing
+   *  this row would NOT take access away. The delete confirmation says so. */
+  still_allowed_by_env: boolean;
 }
 
 // Admin Configuration page: one DB-overridable setting (registry entry on the backend).
@@ -174,6 +177,8 @@ export const adminApi = {
     req("/api/admin/invites", { method: "POST", body: JSON.stringify({ email }) }),
   /** `still_allowed_by_env` is true when the address stays allow-listed by the server's env
    *  ALLOWED_EMAILS / ADMIN_EMAILS, i.e. removing the row did not actually revoke access. */
+  // quiet: a 409 here ("that address has an account") is a case the UI handles with a translated
+  // toast; without this the shared handler ALSO raises the server's English detail as a modal.
   deleteInvite: (id: number): Promise<{ deleted: number; still_allowed_by_env: boolean }> =>
-    req(`/api/admin/invites/${id}`, { method: "DELETE" }),
+    req(`/api/admin/invites/${id}`, { method: "DELETE" }, { quiet: true }),
 };