fix(api): mutations answer ok; route helpers flush and leave the commit to the handler

Two rows of the canonical-patterns table had drifted, found while closing the roadmap audit:

- 63 mutation responses carried no `ok` — `{"unsubscribed": true}`, `{"status": "ok"}`,
  `{"added": 3, …}` and so on. Each now leads with `"ok": true` (additive: every field a client
  reads is still there).
- Twelve route helpers committed on their own. Six were just the end of their handler's work and now
  flush: the playlist item add/remove and Watch later get-or-create, the Plex series/season bulk
  mark, and the invite decision + account activation — which an approval used to land in separate
  transactions. The other six commit on purpose (a token durable before its link is mailed, a
  single-use token burned as its own unit, the Google callback's tail, a background registration
  with its own session, the staged search ingest around YouTube calls), each listed with its reason.

`tests/test_route_conventions.py` holds both rules in code; CLAUDE.md's two rows point at it.

backend/app/routes/audit.py

@@ -68,4 +68,4 @@ def clear_audit(admin: User = Depends(admin_user), db: Session = Depends(get_db)
     n = db.execute(delete(AuditLog)).rowcount or 0
     audit.record(db, admin.id, AuditAction.AUDIT_CLEAR, summary=f"Cleared {n} audit entries")
     db.commit()
-    return {"cleared": n}
+    return {"ok": True, "cleared": n}