fix(reader): the Takeout import keeps a later upload, an un-mark and its memory bound

- An ad-hoc request made while its target's run is under way is the run after it: the scheduler
  dropped a second fire of a running id, so a second Takeout file was never imported and its key
  stayed queued until a restart.
- Un-marking or resetting a video is remembered (video_unmarks): an import of an older YouTube view
  no longer marks it watched again; un-marks take the user's Takeout lock.
- One user's failure in the Shorts job's Takeout pass is theirs: the job keeps its own result, the
  others are settled, and a failed lookup spends none of the daily share.
- The upload reads the user's id before giving the read connection back.
- A watched row waits on a discovery video (search or explore) until the catalog keeps it, so a
  mark never pins it against the cleanup jobs.
- The history is decoded a window at a time, a Watch later file over 2 MiB is refused unread, and
  two uploads at once across all users (takeout_server_busy).
- A Watch later list goes in as one presence read and one insert.

backend/app/reader/models.py

@@ -85,6 +85,21 @@ class VideoState(Base, UpdatedAtMixin):
     progress_updated_at: Mapped[datetime | None] = mapped_column(DateTime(timezone=True))
 
 
+class VideoUnmark(Base):
+    """When the user last took a video back to "new" here — un-marked it, or reset it. That leaves
+    no `VideoState` (its absence is "new"), so without this row a later import of what they watched
+    on YouTube could not tell a video they un-marked from one never touched, and marked it watched
+    again. Kept by user and video; the video's own deletion takes it."""
+
+    __tablename__ = "video_unmarks"
+    __table_args__ = (UniqueConstraint("user_id", "video_id", name="uq_video_unmark"),)
+
+    id: Mapped[int] = mapped_column(primary_key=True)
+    user_id: Mapped[int] = mapped_column(ForeignKey("users.id", ondelete="CASCADE"))
+    video_id: Mapped[str] = mapped_column(ForeignKey("videos.id", ondelete="CASCADE"), index=True)
+    at: Mapped[datetime] = mapped_column(DateTime(timezone=True))
+
+
 class Playlist(Base, TimestampMixin, UpdatedAtMixin):
     """A per-user named, ordered collection of videos from the shared catalog.