feat(playlists): two-way (3-way) merge YouTube sync + mandatory preview (S7)

"Sync to YouTube" was a one-directional destructive push (local wins, deletes
from YouTube every item not in the local list), so items added on YouTube were
lost and a dirty pull was skipped entirely. Replace it with a real 3-way merge:
each item is classified against the last-synced baseline as a local-add, a
YouTube-add, or a genuine delete, so an add or delete on either side survives.

- Persist the ordered baseline id set (new playlists.synced_video_ids, migration
  0075); the fingerprint hash alone couldn't drive a merge. NULL baseline (fresh
  export / pre-S7 link) unions losslessly on the first sync and records one.
- Pure merge_plan(baseline, local, youtube) -> add/remove per side + merged order
  (local order, YouTube-only additions appended). merge_playlist applies the
  local side directly and the YouTube side through the failure breaker; the
  baseline only advances on full success so a partial failure re-converges.
- plan_merge/push-plan now report what each side gains and loses; the confirm
  dialog shows the two-way plan before applying (pushPlanMerge, HU+EN).
- Tests: 10 new (pure classification incl. delete-vs-stale-copy; DB apply proving
  a YouTube-add and a Siftlode-add both survive on both sides, a genuine delete
  propagates without collateral loss, no-baseline never deletes, create path).

backend/app/models.py

@@ -551,6 +551,10 @@ class Playlist(Base, TimestampMixin, UpdatedAtMixin):
     # SHA-256 of name + ordered video ids as last synced from / pushed to YouTube; the
     # baseline `dirty` is derived against. NULL = no baseline yet (treated as dirty).
     synced_fingerprint: Mapped[str | None] = mapped_column(String)
+    # JSON list of the ordered video ids as of the last sync — the 3-way-merge baseline the
+    # two-way YouTube sync classifies each item against (local-add vs YT-add vs real delete).
+    # NULL = no baseline yet; the first merge then does a lossless union (never deletes).
+    synced_video_ids: Mapped[str | None] = mapped_column(Text)
     position: Mapped[int] = mapped_column(Integer, default=0, server_default="0")
 
     items: Mapped[list["PlaylistItem"]] = relationship(