fix: a credential, an erased account and a stale level stay out of the log

Round 2 of the E22 review, on what round 1 changed.

`redact_query` decodes a parameter before the text rules see it, which is what lets `%40` be
recognised as an address — but `_SECRET_PARAM_RE` was written for the raw, encoded form, where a
value holds no space, `&` or quote. On decoded text its value class stops at the first one, so
`?state=a%20b` kept its tail and `?code=%20abc` was not matched at all. The parameter-NAME rule now
decides, on the key, before any text rule runs.

`forget_user` dropped the account's level elevation without recomputing the root level, so a process
whose only elevated account had just deleted itself kept building TRACE records to throw away, until
some later request happened to recompute it. Every other path that drops an elevation recomputes.

The sink's writer took the erasure lock and THEN waited for a pooled connection, while every request
path already holds a connection when it reaches that lock — so under pool pressure the writer held a
process-global lock against the very requests that could hand a connection back. Same order on both
sides now; the lock still spans the check, the insert and the commit.

The storage-budget notice said the rest of the hour was not kept, and then smaller batches kept
landing underneath it: the window slides and a refused batch is not charged to it. Says what it does.

Tests: the route's half of the erasure rule had no test — only the sink's did — and a source-level
contract test now covers the third insert nobody has written yet. `logs._erased` is process-global
with an hour's memory while the DB fixture hands serial ids back out from 1, so it is swept before
each test like the rate limiters are.

backend/app/routes/diagnostics.py

@@ -169,7 +169,10 @@ def _budget_notice(user: User, now: datetime) -> dict[str, Any]:
             "source": "web",
             "logger": "web",
             "event": "diagnostics.budget_spent",
-            "msg": "The browser log passed its hourly storage budget; the rest of the hour is not kept",
+            # What the budget does, exactly: it is a SLIDING hour, and a refused batch is not
+            # charged to it, so smaller batches keep landing while there is room for them. Saying
+            # "the rest of the hour is not kept" would be a row contradicting the rows beneath it.
+            "msg": "The browser log passed its hourly storage budget; a batch bigger than what is left of it is not kept",
             "attrs": {"budget_bytes": STORED_BYTES_PER_HOUR},
             "user_id": user.id,
         }