feat: store warnings and request lines in log_events

The log now has a stored, queryable copy for the diagnostics console:
every WARNING and above plus the request line of every request, kept
for log_retention_days (default 7, no "forever") and pruned hourly by
the new log_gc job.

Rows are built on the logging thread from the same redacted fields as
the stdout line, queued without blocking and written in batches by one
background thread on its own connection. A full queue or a failed write
drops and reports instead of retrying. Flood control keeps 30 of any
one message per minute plus a count of the rest; anonymous request
lines are capped at 60 a minute per client, and the client address is
never stored. Deleting an account deletes its stored events.

Measured on prod first: a YouTube RSS outage wrote 11k warnings in four
hours, one per channel per poll. The poll now writes one warning with
per-reason counts and a few examples, and a failure on our side gets
one traceback per poll instead of one per channel.

backend/app/auth.py

@@ -12,7 +12,7 @@ from app import mailtext
 from app import sysconfig
 from app.config import settings
 from app.db import get_db
-from app.models import Invite, User
+from app.models import Invite, LogEvent, User
 from app.security import decrypt_optional
 from app.utils import canonical_email
 
@@ -246,6 +246,9 @@ def purge_user(db: Session, user: User, background: BackgroundTasks) -> None:
     )
     # Raw delete so Postgres applies ON DELETE CASCADE / SET NULL on every dependent table.
     db.execute(delete(User).where(User.id == user_id))
+    # Stored log events name the account by id with no foreign key to cascade from (models.LogEvent),
+    # so they go explicitly — they are request history, i.e. personal data.
+    db.execute(delete(LogEvent).where(LogEvent.user_id == user_id))
     # Every canonically-equal invite goes, not just the literal spelling: is_allowed matches on the
     # canonical form, so leaving a sibling row behind would keep granting access to a mailbox whose
     # account was just erased — and prod really does carry approved pairs for one mailbox.