feat: store warnings and request lines in log_events

The log now has a stored, queryable copy for the diagnostics console:
every WARNING and above plus the request line of every request, kept
for log_retention_days (default 7, no "forever") and pruned hourly by
the new log_gc job.

Rows are built on the logging thread from the same redacted fields as
the stdout line, queued without blocking and written in batches by one
background thread on its own connection. A full queue or a failed write
drops and reports instead of retrying. Flood control keeps 30 of any
one message per minute plus a count of the rest; anonymous request
lines are capped at 60 a minute per client, and the client address is
never stored. Deleting an account deletes its stored events.

Measured on prod first: a YouTube RSS outage wrote 11k warnings in four
hours, one per channel per poll. The poll now writes one warning with
per-reason counts and a few examples, and a failure on our side gets
one traceback per poll instead of one per channel.

backend/app/main.py

@@ -23,6 +23,7 @@ from fastapi.staticfiles import StaticFiles
 from sqlalchemy.exc import DataError
 from starlette.middleware.sessions import SessionMiddleware
 
+from app import logsink
 from app import state
 from app import sysconfig
 from app.config import settings
@@ -60,6 +61,8 @@ from app.scheduler import shutdown_scheduler, start_scheduler
 @asynccontextmanager
 async def lifespan(app: FastAPI):
     log.info("Siftlode starting up")
+    # The stored copy of the log (log_events). The entrypoint has already migrated the schema.
+    logsink.start()
     # First-run: if the instance isn't configured yet, mint a fresh one-time setup token and print
     # the wizard URL so the operator can open it (the app runs in setup mode until they finish).
     with SessionLocal() as db:
@@ -107,6 +110,7 @@ async def lifespan(app: FastAPI):
         # Kills a running subtitle extraction: its worker would otherwise hold interpreter exit for
         # the rest of the read (see plex_subtitles.shutdown).
         plex_subtitles.shutdown()
+        logsink.stop()  # last: write what the shutdown itself just logged
 
 
 # How often idle HLS sessions are reaped (see plex/stream.py `reap_idle`).