feat: store warnings and request lines in log_events

The log now has a stored, queryable copy for the diagnostics console:
every WARNING and above plus the request line of every request, kept
for log_retention_days (default 7, no "forever") and pruned hourly by
the new log_gc job.

Rows are built on the logging thread from the same redacted fields as
the stdout line, queued without blocking and written in batches by one
background thread on its own connection. A full queue or a failed write
drops and reports instead of retrying. Flood control keeps 30 of any
one message per minute plus a count of the rest; anonymous request
lines are capped at 60 a minute per client, and the client address is
never stored. Deleting an account deletes its stored events.

Measured on prod first: a YouTube RSS outage wrote 11k warnings in four
hours, one per channel per poll. The poll now writes one warning with
per-reason counts and a few examples, and a failure on our side gets
one traceback per poll instead of one per channel.

backend/app/youtube/rss.py

@@ -14,7 +14,14 @@ class RssError(Exception):
 
     Deliberately NOT the same as an empty feed: a failed poll used to return `[]`, which the
     caller stamped as a successful `last_rss_at` — so a channel whose feed 404s permanently
-    (deleted, renamed id) looked like it was being polled fine forever, and nothing surfaced it."""
+    (deleted, renamed id) looked like it was being polled fine forever, and nothing surfaced it.
+
+    `reason` is a short stable code (`http_404`, `transport`) so a poll over many channels can report
+    WHAT failed as counts instead of one line per channel."""
+
+    def __init__(self, message: str, reason: str):
+        super().__init__(message)
+        self.reason = reason
 
 
 def fetch_channel_feed(channel_id: str) -> list[dict]:
@@ -24,9 +31,12 @@ def fetch_channel_feed(channel_id: str) -> list[dict]:
     try:
         resp = httpx.get(url, timeout=20.0, headers={"User-Agent": "Siftlode/1.0"})
     except httpx.HTTPError as exc:
-        raise RssError(f"RSS fetch failed for {channel_id}: {exc}") from exc
+        raise RssError(f"RSS fetch failed for {channel_id}: {exc}", "transport") from exc
     if resp.status_code != 200:
-        raise RssError(f"RSS fetch for {channel_id} returned HTTP {resp.status_code}")
+        raise RssError(
+            f"RSS fetch for {channel_id} returned HTTP {resp.status_code}",
+            f"http_{resp.status_code}",
+        )
 
     parsed = feedparser.parse(resp.content)
     out: list[dict] = []