fix(catalog): a follow from YouTube keeps an explored channel, and the list counts only what can come

A subscription pulled in from YouTube left an explored channel flagged as an exploration's, so its
later videos came in hidden from the Library with their watched marks waiting for good; a subscribe
landing while an exploration's videos came in left those flagged too. One step, settle_explored,
now holds the rule by who follows the channel now: the subscribe here, the subscription import, the
watched-channel videos and the explore page all end with it. Migration 0116 clears what the gap
left behind.

The list's "may still grow" count no longer counts a channel it already shows from a stub row, and
the comments on the cleanup's keep rule and on the in-memory daily shares say what they do.

backend/app/catalog/service.py

@@ -96,13 +96,24 @@ def record_subscription(db: Session, user: User, channel: Channel, yt_subscripti
             subscribed_at=datetime.now(timezone.utc),
         )
     )
-    if channel.from_explore:
-        channel.from_explore = False
-        db.execute(
-            update(Video)
-            .where(Video.channel_id == channel.id, Video.via_explore.is_(True))
-            .values(via_explore=False)
-        )
+    db.flush()
+    settle_explored(db, channel)
+
+
+def settle_explored(db: Session, channel: Channel) -> None:
+    """Hold the rule that a channel's videos are an exploration's only while nobody follows it,
+    decided by who follows it now, not by the flag held in memory: a subscribe in another request
+    may have cleared that while YouTube answered this one, and the videos that came in meanwhile
+    would stay flagged. A channel someone follows, however the follow came (here or pulled in from
+    YouTube), is the catalog's own, and so are its videos."""
+    if channel.from_explore and not queries.followed(db, channel.id):
+        return
+    channel.from_explore = False
+    db.execute(
+        update(Video)
+        .where(Video.channel_id == channel.id, Video.via_explore.is_(True))
+        .values(via_explore=False)
+    )
     db.flush()