feat(ui): R3 S2 — loading rows for blank-flash pages, error paths for forever-loading ones

- Blank-flash (showed an empty state on first load before data): DownloadCenter (queue + library
  tabs), AdminUsers (roles + invites), ChatThread, PlaylistsRail now show a loading indicator
  (and an error+retry) instead of a false-empty flash — guarded on `&& !data` so live data isn't
  disturbed on refetch.
- Forever-loading (`isLoading || !data` loops forever on a failed fetch): ConfigPanel, the three
  PlexBrowse subviews (playlist/show/season), and Stats' admin dashboard get an `isError && !data`
  error+retry path before the loading branch.
- Playlists' detail pane already had an error path (isError+retry); its list lives in PlaylistsRail
  (now covered), so no change needed there.

frontend/src/components/Stats.tsx

@@ -247,7 +247,11 @@ function SystemStats() {
         {t("stats.introAfter")}
       </p>
 
-      {q.isLoading ? (
+      {q.isError && !data ? (
+        <StateMessage tone="error" onRetry={() => q.refetch()}>
+          {t("common.loadError")}
+        </StateMessage>
+      ) : q.isLoading ? (
         <div className="text-muted py-8">{t("stats.loading")}</div>
       ) : !data ? (
         <div className="text-muted py-8">{t("stats.noData")}</div>