fix(plex): the subtitle poll backs off on errors, a failed <track> is replaced, and a resume asks for the right window

Deep-review R2, plus one defect found while verifying it on localdev.

- The status poll re-armed every second after a FAILED request: `data` stays empty on an error,
  so it read as "still preparing" for as long as the player was open — and the request was not
  quiet, so a persistent 500 re-opened the global error dialog every second. It now backs off to
  10 s (a blip still heals on its own) and is quiet; the player already shows the failure inline.
- A <track> whose own VTT fetch failed never fetched again: with the server's answer unchanged its
  key was unchanged, so React kept the dead element — silently blank subtitles. The key (now built
  in the hook, where it is tested) carries a failed-load count; after two remounts the track is
  reported as unavailable instead.
- Found in UAT: until the first timeupdate `abs` is 0, so after a resume every poll said at=0 and
  the first window was cut around the head of the film (a resume at 20:00 polled at=0 for as long
  as it stayed paused). The poll reports the session's start until playback ticks. And the window's
  dedup identity is the track plus a window-length bucket of its start — keyed on the track alone
  (R1), the right window queued behind that wrong one.

The poll's start/stop rules finally have tests (every earlier one resolved a single fixed answer).
Verified on localdev against Westworld S1E6 resumed at 20:00: the polls carried at=1197, one
subtitle line on screen at 21:02, the poll stopped at `ready`; the real file's window (56 cues) +
full pass (608) merged to 608 — the old merge would have served 664. 11 mutations, all red.

frontend/src/lib/api/plex.ts

@@ -672,8 +672,11 @@ export const plexApi = {
     code: string | null;
     gen: number;
   }> =>
+    // `quiet`: the player reports a failed poll inline, so no global error dialog on top of it.
     req(
       `/api/plex/subtitle/${encodeURIComponent(id)}/${ord}/status?at=${Math.max(0, Math.floor(at))}`,
+      undefined,
+      { quiet: true },
     ),
   // `final` marks a settled checkpoint (pause / page-hide / leaving the player) as opposed to the
   // periodic 10s tick — the backend mirrors the resume position to a linked Plex account only on a